Life gives us lot of reasons to fight back. Fight back for the self-respect, self-evaluation, prestige, pride, motto and identity. It is very easy in today’s world that anything related to our soul can be shattered by anyone around us. It might be rejecting our existence or rejecting our own ideas. People are full of with the tremendous jealousy all around us.

There are goals in life that we want to achieve, the goals that help us to move forward in the life. The goals that are important to us for making the future beautiful. The goals that help us to create an identity we always wanted to develop. The goals that are very building blocks of the discipline we follow in our daily life. The goals that gives us pride in chasing something. The goals that differentiate us from the rest of world. Our life is so complex that we do not stay hard on one goal and keeps on changing goals based upon the situation we faced in our life. Goals are something that we do not require to change on the bases of temporary problems. We should fight with the problems of our daily life in order to save the goals. The goals are like our identity, it is not require at all keeping changing every other day. Fighting back with the problems, with the odd situation, with the people just to save goal is OK. It is not only in sports we have to keep the spirit high but also in our life we should keep it high.

Figure out the passion in life and fight back with everything to save it. It can be painting, photography, music, theatre, any kind of art or anything in the canvas of world. Fight back to save it in you. Whenever you feel nothing is remaining in you just indulge yourself into the very hobby. Time will pass in a fly and you will not feel the boredom and rejection at all. Life is all about fighting back, fighting to save the passion in you. Fighting to save the hobbies in your soul. Like a child who do not give up for toy, we have to stand and fight to not give up our hobby.

Some people in our life become the core part of our journey as we move on in life.  Whatever the situation we are in, they always come and rescue us from getting broken. Do not let them go of. Fight hard and fight back as many times as you have to but not let them go from your life. Connections are important in our life and they are like any other traits of our character. The people whom with we spent time defines who we actually are. There will be people who will connect and leave as per their easiness but the people who connect and leave as per your concerns are important. They are god to your life and do not let them go off. Fight hard for the survival of you basic instinct associated with them.

Fight back not for anyone else but for yourself. To save the truth in you, to save the human in you, to save the greed, to save the attitude, to save habit, to save the love and to save every other characteristics that defines you a human.

"Failure stories are as important as success stories and nothing is wrong to have it."

We often see web is full of success stories and hardly any success story helps then what is that thing which helps the most. Yes, it is failure stories. We do not learn from our success but we learn from failures. You remember when first time you start practicing to stand, each time you fell you find out a way not to fall again then there came a point where you learnt the actual way to stand.

Life works in a same way but because of fear of failure, we do not even try for a success. We knew in the childhood how person looks like standing, we saw all the people around us who can stand easily but still we learnt it by trying by our own selves. Similarly, web and books are filled up with lot of tricks and tips, which can tell one the magic to succeed but person will not get success until he/she will not try.

A person who gets success after lot of failures is having a taste of great results and hard work. Accidental success also happens but they are rarest of gem, most of the time success comes after working hard day and night continuously without any break. Each of us saw failures and success both but to make the world better why not start-telling failure stories because there are so many who are telling their success ones.

You should pen down your failure story because:-

Life is unpredictable, at one day you feel like to be on top and other you feel to be under tons of weight. It is unpredictable not because it is designed like that but it is because of our expectations. There are a lot of incidents happen around us for which we can’t do anything. There are incidents that are out of control, out of our reach, out of expectations and dreams. Most of the time we expect our future based upon the present situation and we integrate it to find the big canvas. We get motivated through it and also sometimes go into the depression because of same.

There are certain things in life which tell us to be neutral and nor to be happy more than requiring neither be sad. The wisdom comes not when you don’t react to the situation but when you take it as a lesson and move on. Moving on is the biggest wisdom of life and nobody should keep holding things for a long period of time. Every second we are moving in the universe then why we should not move our thoughts? Why be stationary with one thought?

We live with multiple people but do not learn from them. We wait for the situation to happen with us instead we can give a look around us to learn from others. Why work on already solve problems when there are plenty of problems exist to be solved? We should interact with the people and listen to their experiences bad or good it doesn’t matter. Life should not be spent like sitting at one place thinking about the past.

When you take decisions most of the time it results from the thoughts of emotion gathered over your mind. Try to be calm whenever decide about something and never take a decision at an instant. Sometimes we lost the precious moments of life when heart conquers over the mind. The heart is what you want at present and mind is what you require in the long run. Do not be confuse from the orders of your own soul and take decisions whenever things are calm.

There are several questions that keep disturbing me every moment in life.  Whenever I go to perform any action I think about the incident, whether this is accepted in the society or not. Whenever I go to present my thoughts I think about the thought, whether society is good about it or not? Whenever I try to praise anyone for their courage I think whether this praise is allowed in the society? There are lots of incidents where I think more about the consequences than the action itself.

This is not only my problem but I think the world is mad before it. People do have the courage to live life in a good way but it is circumstances that everyone needs permission from the society to do it.

When I was a child there were certain things that were good and certain were bad but today I feel that things do have their own perspective from personality to personality for some waking up in the night is cool for others it is not acceptable at all. In our day to day life, there are thousands of tasks for which we look for a third world for approval.

Whenever you go to shopping malls, parties, public gatherings, market or offices you are more nervous about the action you take to enjoy than enjoying itself. You often go and see what other people are doing and then you do only those tasks as you want yourself to be accepted there.

In my point of view, life is about learning from experiences, if you like something do it and don’t wait for anybody else approval. Things and actions are right until they don’t hurt anyone seriously. I mean you can’t laugh at a funeral and you should also not allow singing a song during business meetings. These are unacceptable not by the society but as a whole but there are certain things that you know will not harm anyone but still you think society will reject it, for those things don’t wait for the society to tell whether you are right or wrong.

Society cannot tell that you are the good musician or not neither they can tell about writing skills and nor about your choices. If you like oranges and everybody else picking an apple it doesn’t mean you should also pick an apple. There are certain things that an individual choose like hobbies, passion, love, profession, degree, expressions, thoughts, wisdom, values, experiences and friends. Society shouldn’t have a right to decide on it and you also shouldn’t worry about whether it is acceptable or not.

Secrets: - Anything unknown to the outside world behind the boundaries of you.

You have heard thousand of stories about secrets of kingdom, money, adventures, knowledge and treasury but did you ever thought about secrets of yourself? Did you ever have concerns about it? Yes, you may have a question about how the traits and personality related to you can be a secret. If you will ask me … Yes, it is a secret. Anything that you do, that you think, that you perform, that you plan, All are secrets. Once you expose it to someone else the secrets become your trait and people call it personality.

You may think why I am talking about this? The personality is the outcome of the presentation from you. How you present yourself to the other is what personality is all about. People respect the individual who keeps secrets and shares only what is require. The purpose of this article is to tell you about how the communication from you can disturb your overall life within seconds if you don’t keep secrets.

When you meet someone for the first time, you both are the stranger to each other but as soon as you start observing the life and characteristics of each other you become friends. People say you share common thoughts and hence you are friends but the common thoughts … where it comes from? It comes from you and the other person around you. People meet you and love to know below points about you:-

When you compare all the above points you find out some are useful to share but others are not. The points that you should never share to everybody are called secrets. Might be the case when you share some thoughts with other person and then the person shared it with someone else who need not suppose to have the information can put you into trouble.

There are some points that you will love to hear from other back but there are some points that you do not. It all depends on you; how you present yourself in front of other to get back what you want.

There are points in life when you share everything with the other people and then they left you because there are no more things to listen from you. You become bored, lame and crazy to them.When you hide things and don’t share each minute of your life then there is an aura around you which keeps on attracting people to listen from you. You can share your happiness, wining moments, life , sometimes family background, even some of the good plans but never share your financial condition, love life, relationships, the past, failures and bad habits about you from yourself. Let them decide on you for these points, if they are true friends they will understand you irrespective of the thing whether you share each secret to them or not.

Priorities are one of the regular activities that we do all the time in our life. Mostly it is about a selection of the things at a particular time, I must say one need to have options for the selection. People who are more successful do better prioritizing of their selections.

 Most of the time when we select the things we generally selecting a part of our future whether it is about selecting a college, a job, a place to visit, a car to buy or anything that we are going to have in future. When we put them in order we prioritize the things in a fashion. It might be buying a car after buying a home or may be traveling to your dream place after completing under graduation. It can be anything but when it comes to day to day tasks we generally don’t prioritize and just follow what is there at that time.

Ordering a life matters most. All the tasks you are going to do in a day must follow a serial if not at least you need to finish the important tasks before going to finish unnecessary ones. Life is nothing but a combination of moments, a minute is nothing but a combination of seconds. Each and every activity you do at a particular time is somewhat playing an important role in building your future. Till 20’s you can be free and do not think about these but when you enter in your 20’s your life starts building a future for you from the moments you are spending for you.

You must think about the activities you do in your regular life, it might be an important period to focus on a career instead you invest time in finding your soul mate. It can be the moment to find a good job or establish a business but you might be traveling. It can be anything, the person who prioritizes their life better leads the world in future.

Spending time on social networks can be good but spending at what time matters most. A person has only 24 hours a day and a person need to decide what he/she should do in that. The activities were done in these 24 hours will only come up in deciding your next 20-30 years of life. Wasting time is the biggest mistake one can ever do, there are two kinds of activities in our day to day life one is passive and other is active. Always try to be a part of active activities it can be sports, exercise, painting, work, discussion, communications, debates, reading or anything that you create or you are the part of creation. Passive activities are the one that kills time and waste time .if you invest more than the required for it such as watching movies/Serials continuously at one sitting, checking social networks without any need of, and chatting with people on unnecessary topics. Passive activities don’t need your involvement of you, it is something that runs in the world but you are not part of it. Passive activities are good only for entertainment, mood change, enjoying lighter and happiest moment of life but doing it for a long time is harmful.

You should manage active and passive in combination and try to give more attention to active activities. When you start a day priorities things before you start actually doing. You should make a list of all important things and plan it according to your time. If anything left to put in next day list and keep on putting until you finish it. People run from the problems in life but according to me, you should face it by standing in front of it and giving time to it. You must priorities problems as well and solve one by one. To be happy is not to think about problems but to prioritize everything in life and do when their time comes.

A very happy new year to all of you. I hope the year comes to you with a lot of great achievements, results and success. It is really a very fascinating to think about completing the new goals, meeting new people, travelling new places , setting up new business/Job at the start of the year but it is equally true as well that half of the promises that we do with ourselves don’t stay long and we become the same what we were last year.

Life goes on very smoothly and there is no shortcut to getting things quickly. When things need to come they will come, there is no need to be in a hurry for attaining everything that we ever think. I must say for me last year was more an evolution than attaining anything. I didn’t attain much but learnt many things that may help in building a good future.

I always say that life is not like school/college years that went on and on and you will get every year a new number to show yourself. Life is not about graduating a school, completing some courses or learning a new language. It is something that is having a process, a process that never ends. Life is like water which flows from glaciers to the rivers then to the sea and then evaporates and again come to its purest form. You cannot win anything in life but yes you can enjoy it.

Life is having multiple phases and the emotional quotient is much stronger than intelligent quotient in playing any success roles. If you are mentally strong it doesn’t matter your knowledge anymore and you can always learn and adopt it later.

 It is said that you are the average of five closest people with whom you hang out. I think that is true as the conversations, communications, topic of discussions and the thought process quality will depend on only these people interests. When you communicate, you exchange energies with each other. That is how you either become very good or bad depend upon the circle of people you are with. My advice will always be the same, before choosing a communication ... choose people you are going to communicate with.

Love and relationships are the important part of our life and we build relations with the people with whom we hang out or to whom we like. There are always two things that matter that most which are trust and no profit attitude. In relationships, you don’t search profits but you search for love and it comes from within. There is no sorry and no thank.Mostly it is the duty of people to do whatever one can do for each other to build relations stronger. Sometimes misunderstanding happens but it should be the topic of talk not should be the topic of ignorance. When you talk about differences you actually close them. Talking is the best ever thing you can do whenever you see any mishaps in relations.

I hope you enjoyed your last year in a very good shape and hope that you will enjoy this year as well but remember life is not just about years where you keep jumping from one to other but mostly it is about the process. Whenever you feel any depressed thoughts just call the person whom you think the closest to you and cheer up. There is nothing like lost and gain. You might face a hard time for the short period but it will never be same for your full life. Remember this year to live for others and you will never be alone.

“Art of living alone” why did I choose such a topic to write about? There are an enormous number of topics that still exist in this world to cover. You can think about … who in the world of facebook and twitter tells to follow an Art that is saying to live alone? But the answer is simple; living alone is an art that needs a lot of practice, patience, and dedication to follow. The people who are introvert just ask from them, they can give a full speech on this.

So let’s talk about the stages that can trouble you to follow this lifestyle. Nobody chooses to live alone but the circumstances that hit a person to live in this situation. Might be there is a reason that you are out of town living life in a totally different city, might be you are living with the people with no common interest, might be people think that you are a fool, and might be you think that you are the fool.

So reason is whatever but it will put you in a situation where nobody is willing to talk you and you are not able to find people who can talk to you. There could be a reason that you are an artist while the people you meet belong to the commercial world. You hate being in pubs, parties but people around you love it. You love doing one to one communication but people hate. This ultimately put you in a situation where people go in distress and depression. Here comes the medicine “An Art of living alone”. Yes, you read it right it is a therapy.

These are the hacks that I thought are best, if you know other please comment here…

A time comes in everybody life when we distress heavily from various talks that we do with ourselves and various that we want to do it with others. A time comes when we feel like to prove things; a time comes when we feel like to explain things. It is a ritual of the world to get an explanation about each and everything that we do, it’s a ritual to weigh us on the scales that is designed for something else. It is a curse to have an idea and a big curse if idea is unique.

The mind works in a way where we always wants someone else stamp on the things that are created by us. We usually go to everybody to approve it from chain to chain and at last, left with so many opinions that we doubt ourselves and our capabilities. The people who are in our neighbor or the people from our classrooms or the people from offices everybody just asks one thing “Hey! What happened to your ideas? When are you going to implement? Where is the next Steve job? Where is the next shahrukh khan or where is the next sachin tendulkar?” They compare us with the eminent personalities because our ideas revolved around them. Mounted by these pressures we lost our originality and start to chase things that are not in our plans.

Why if we explain to people if we know we can do it alone? We go for them in search of help, we go for them to praise us, we go for them to relate us, we go for them to make us, but nothing happens the way we thought to happen. First they need explanation for the things then they need proof of the capability. There is nothing wrong if they really want to, but they do so because they believe we are on the wrong side they are on the right.

There are certain times when we take back our assignments and our dream just because of some temporary difficulties and people think that this guy is going to over soon. Is it really hard to come back if anyone is failing again and again? No, many did in past many are doing in present and many will do in future. The possibility of life is seen by nobody and the pearls of success are hidden within it. The person who is working continuously with hammer sure will get diamond one day rather than the person who is commenting on the act of hammering on a hard rock.

Why to explain when we know our ideas are better and our passion is good? Why to explain when our motive is clear and our mission is unique? Why to explain when they never heard, never saw and never felt the kind of the kind of thing we are going to do? If we will explain they will expect proof. If we don’t explain they will expect nothing. The results will surprise them then explain them what you proved them.

Get an Idea->implement it->proof to others->Then explain it

I had invested around 20+ years of life since by birth travelling over and over to gain knowledge that what we termed as education.Do I really care about the place and people from where I am getting the knowledge? My answer is no unless I am getting the truth I don’t care about the source from where I am getting knowledge in. I got these five pillars from my experience that constitute pillars for education-

Every year teaches us some lessons to move on in life with new learning’s. The year 2014 teaches me 5 best lessons that I am going to share with you.

Lesson 1 – “Never try for extra things until you are not perfect in one “

It is the human tendency that never wants to stop. One wants to achieve everything from life that he/she can. There are certain moments for which a person is good but without even completing it to the best, He/she diverts to learn another thing in life and becomes “JACK OF ALL TRADE MASTER OF NONE”. The world changed to a lot and in this era to become successful one needs to master at least one area and then move on forward to learn other things. There can be various moments where one even can doubts on self esteem to attain a thing if he/she involves in diverting paths so frequently. The perfection is very necessary in life.

Lesson 2 – “Never promise anything to anyone until you are not sure about it”

The case where we often promise multiple things to fulfill others need without actually analyzing it but as soon as we come into reality, we find ourselves in a very bad position to survive that promise. Some people are so good that they don’t know to say no so they accept all the things that asked from them to fulfill but this lead to problem for both of them and at the end relationships are not as per as it were before the promise. So saying “no” is not a bad case if one is not sure about it how to fulfill.

Lesson 3 –“Career choices should be on caliber and reality  not as per the fantasies”

We read many things about different professionals who changed the world by their extra ordinary skills and wanted to become one but we often change our careers according to the stories about them. In my view career is the most serious thing that one need to take care about, it is sole responsible thing that decides where one’s life is going to end. Choose it wisely and once chosen it never ever try to think about other careers. Read the personalities about which are in your career. Never change your option because some person in other profession is earning more fame and money than you. If you are concentrating about your profession no one can stop you from becoming a huge success.

Lesson 4- “Reality is not about what you see but is all about what you feel”

Reality cannot be calculated by the number of followers on social network or twitter account. Neither can it be judged by the number of likes on your status and profile pictures. It is actually what you feel about it. If you are feeling that you are not good in your work than work hard to improve it and not stop because some stranger on social network is saying that you are her inspiration and you are king in this profession.

People flatter you and flatter everywhere because they want to get some attention from you but you should not faith them blindly until you are not actually feeling about it.

Lesson 5- “Life is all about exploring not about stopping”

Life is a very fast journey. It helps to jump from one part to the other. It takes you with it to travel every corner of the world. It takes you in a lap and meets you with uncomfortable experiences, sudden behaviors, thunder moments and all the astonishing activities that trouble you at the beginning but once you fight with all of them, you will become a person of value. The soul of you now knows that the ending always happens in a good way if you had believed on yourself. We must not stop at any moment in life. A wall is there between you and your success because it stops all those people who don’t want to go other side by heart but the one who really wants to go they break the wall and let the other side celebrate their welcome.

After graduating from college in our country (INDIA) most of the people want to know their purpose of life. Everybody had done their graduation for a very own different purpose. Not many people choose subjects according to their interests but according to some advice given to them. It is very hard to get admission in the field where one wants to pursue dreams because of large population and hectic competitions. The questions that rise in one’s mind are like…

What is our purpose of life?

Purpose of life is different for everyone in this world.

But the youth always gets confused about which path to follow in life. Whether to go for dreams or career. Youth don’t know their actual interests. They are still finding the areas in their soul which they can pursue to lead their dreams. Sometimes they feel like what I am doing in this world if I have not a single purpose to continue my life.

What we are doing?

As they don’t know the purpose of life they are always in confusion about their working style. Actually they question everything in life to do or not to do. Youth wants a purpose and their work but everyday they get up with thousands of ideas and slept with blank minds without any proper implementations.

Why I am not achieving any goals?

There is no solid purpose in life and no enthusiasm to work. Setting goals in life is purely depends on the purpose of life. The way youth design their future is the way how it works in real world but without any proper outline every goal is a failure and that is the reason most of the goals are converted into failures.

Why nobody acknowledge me?

People respect work and the success stories around it. If a person is not capable of defining their work area and no goal is achieved by him/her in recent days that will going to acknowledge him/her. Everybody wants to meet the personalities who are having a magical touch and clear vision in their personalities.

From this article I just want to point out for a purpose in life …