The responsibility don’t come only when you are deeply involved in something but sometimes it comes naturally to you if you are in a profession of communication. A profession that deals with communicating thoughts, ideas, stories, meaning, revolution or anything. Mostly writers are the one who communicate with rest of the world very often. People read them and get inspire from them. They get to travel an era of some 16^th century or sometimes even go to the future with the way writer pursue the scenes in writing.

The responsibility that I think should come to writer is-

There are lot of people search multiple things everyday on the internet and it is our responsibility to provide them accurate and correct knowledge. It is our responsibility to help them in finding the solution for what they are searching for rather than deviating them for any other path. We are the people who change the world and is our responsibility to say bad to bad and good to good.

Life is very short and we know it very well but perhaps not everybody knows about it and that is why so much turbulence, so much war and so much blood on this planet. We can live in peace and can share food, cloth, and shelter but no we want privacy, power, and domination.

There are enormous amount of factors that can make us happy but no when we kill people that make us happy, when we go and take possession of other’s home it makes us happy, when we detach father from family and son from mother this makes us happy, when we go and shut everybody in far unknown regions this makes us happy. Who are we? We are the people who question about the authenticity of others without checking on our own. We question about the lifestyle of others whereas our own lifestyle is pretty bad. We question about the belief of others but we don’t believe in us.

If someone is believing in god we attack them saying god is nothing, if someone is believing on his rituals we attack them and say no rituals are correct, if someone is believing on their tribe and culture again we attack them and say there is no tribe and culture to choose from and choose us. We are the people who want to rule you, we want that each breath of you plead to us for living and neither we are god and nor angels.

We are the people who designed borders such that no person from the bad part of the world can reach to the good part, we designed the system which follows the rule that says you need permission to travel from point A to B. We are the people who took your land by killing your ancestors. We are the one who started divide and rule policy to see you dying day by day. We are the one who coined term war and invented all big weapons and most are in progress that you never heard of. We are the one who tarnished Japan by bombing it because people were not good. We are the one who killed each other during the partition of the countries. We are the one who can kill in the name of religion and it didn’t matter to us whether my god told or not.

We are the one who can bomb our own people without any solid reason. for us, hatred is in our blood and nobody from us questions it. We kill people because they play music, we kill people because they party hard, and we kill people because they follow different religion. We damage countries not once twice but any number of times because somewhere there is fuel which cost a lot in the international market. We want to provide our kids better education and better life but we want children of other countries to die from bullets. We don’t accept people like they are but we tell them how they should need to be if they want to gain our acceptance. We are everywhere and we made up of hatred, anger, greed, lure, lust and seduction.  

We don’t follow any religion, any rule, any saying, any truth, any person or anything. We are the monster in with own ideas. People know we are idiots but we think we are a genius.

11/28/2016 by Monica Morgan

One’s typical 2016 journal would include pictures at the Copacabana beach in the summer, or breathtaking shots while conquering the world’s craziest zip lines. Mine’s a bit different. It doesn’t manifest itself physically.

Before we delve to my ultimate memories in 2016, here are the ten happiest moments in life as per The Huffington Post.

To tell you, my most unforgettable memories are somehow unorthodox.

Living with Depression

Three years – that’s how long I was hobbled by clinical depression. I’ve also been diagnosed with Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) which eventually led to Body Dysmorphic Disorder. I hated myself, my body, the way I live, and what not. I was so crippled that I even failed to muster the strength to get out of my room for weeks.

I was hopeless. It seemed to me that meds and psychotherapy just made my condition worse. I slept the whole day for months, and I cut off ties with my friends and colleagues. I was on the brink of dying inside.

That Magnificent November the 10^th Dinner

It was supposed to be my normal routine – sleep for 12 hours, ruminates over negative thoughts for 4 hours, eat, and go back to sleep. What was different on that November evening? It felt like I woke up from a deep slumber.

While eating, I noticed that our family’s morale seemed low. My mom’s usual gleeful smile was not on her face, and my dad and siblings appeared anxious too. That was the turning point. I realized that I cannot live in fear and paranoia anymore. I have to get out of this sapping void.

I finally cracked a genuine smile. That moment, to me, was so surreal. My family finally had a breather upon seeing that I’m trying. They finally got back the cheerful son and brother they once lost.

That exact memory of happiness and freedom from unrealistic fears is something to cherish for my 2016.

Finally Living.

Depression is a mental illness that relapses. I know that it can bother me again, but I’ve developed my personal mantras this time:

“My greatest fear is never trying.”

“I miss 100% of the opportunities I don’t take.”

“Thinking negatively does nothing but holds me back from what I can achieve.”

“There’s more to life than being depressed. My will power is stronger than this.”

So my second best memory for 2016 is my every waking day seeing these mantras stuck on my closet. Those always remind me to live well.

Bouncing Back Harder in Every Aspect of Life

The top five biggest regrets, as enumerated by Huffington Post’s writer Natasha Hinde, are the following:

Of the five, I may be guilty of the first three. Now, my third best memory is my everyday pursuit of correcting those.

For my career, I decided to make a career shift. My previous line of work offered             better compensation, but limited self-expression. Meanwhile, content writing and blogging gave my life a better purpose. The sheer joy of helping out readers and sharing a part of you are things that cannot be remunerated.

Another headway that I made this year is rekindling my old confidence. I’m back being the life of the party, and my friends understand me – and my battles – better now. From this point, there are only better things to come for me.

To wrap it up, my unforgettable memories are all about getting up after being down for so long. It’s something I won’t exchange for any luxurious trips or paid vacations. Those who stuck with me through the good and bad are people I will carry forward my 2017.

If you’re still struggling in making good memories this 2016, there’s still more than a month to capture those. The greatest memories in life are the small joys and victories we often take for granted. Be grateful and live well J

Author Bio

Monica Morgan is a free-spirited woman having vast experience in article writing. She loves to travel Asian countries, writing reviews on each of them on her Hqessays.com. She prefers using diverse writing styles to properly engage with a wide array of readers.

Shayad ye mera pahla blog hai jo main apni zabaan me likh raha hun, Kabhi khyaal aata hai ki kya koi is zabaan ko padhta bhi hoga ? agar padhta hai to kya kabhi kuch sochta bhi hoga ? Aaj humari zindagi mein ek soch si kayam ho gayi hai ki agar aap hindi ka istimal karein to aap ek bahut pichre hue tabke se tallukh rakhte hain, log aapko ek touheen bhari Nazar se dekhenge , log kahenge to kuch nahi bs aapke bare me andaaze lagainge aur mahfilon me uchalenge. Mera angrezi me likhna wajib tha jo maine apne saare pichli baton me zikr kiya hai wo zabaan angrezi hi thi , ek tabqa hai jo angrezi ko bade chaav se padh raha hai jo aaj ka convent da hai , jo angrezi schoolon se padha hua hai , jo angrezi college se degree le aaya hai. Mai nahi jaanta ki wo hindi ko bhi utne hi chaav se padhta hai ki nahi par padhta to hoga hi . Kabhi samose aur pakode khane baithta hoga to zaror kuch harf akhbaar ke haath me aaye honge aur zaroor usne socha hoga ki kya is zaban se mera tallukh hai koi ?

Bade faqr se kahta hai woh ki , mai angrezi jaanta hun ,

Zara pooch usse ki kya who khud ko janta hai !!

Mai ye nahi kahta ki kya galat hai aur kya sahi hai par jab girehbaan me jhankta hun to zaroor sochta hun ki sach hai ki maine seekh li angrezi par kya ye bhi sach hai ki maine seekh liya khud ko utarna angrezi mein. Ye sach hai ki is duniya mein agar aage badhna hai to angrezi seekhna hoga , koi ek bhasha kitne logon tak pahunchti hogi ? Koi ek bhasha ko koi kitna parhta hoga? Bahut kam hi honge jo isko padhte honge par kya kuch log nahi hain jo angrezi bilkul nahi jaante wo bilkul nahi jante koi haraf uska , kya unke liye bhi koi likhta hoga , aaj aap kahoge ki agar internet par koi baith kar blog padhega to kya wo hindi padhega , google bhi soch me padta hoga ki koi hindi bhi search karta hai kya? Hum kitna bhi hindi ki baat kyun na karen mai abhi script to angrezi ki hi istimal  kar raha hun.

Bahut aarzoo se maine khud ko pesh kiya apni zabaan mein,

Baad mein yaad aaya ki harf to abhi bhi udhaar ke hain !!

Ye kuch aisa maashra khada ho gaya hai ki hum bhool gaye hain ki khud ko jitna aacha hum apni khud ki bhasha me samjha sakte hain utna udhaar liye hue nahi , maana ki aaj saari zarrortein angrezi bhasha se hi poori hoti hain , aaj koi bhi kaam aisa nahi jahan iske bagair kuch hassil ho jai par kya ye bhi zaroori hai ki apni bhasha ko qurbaan kar dein , kya ye zaroori hai ki koi ek bhasha acchi hai aur ek buri , mere mutabik to bilkul nahi agar bhashaon ka takaza ho sakta hia to sirf is baat par ki log kisko jaante hai , par aaj bhi ek aam aadmi apni matrbhasha se zyada lagaav karega banizbat kisi aur se. Aaj bhi log samjahte hain apni hi bhasha mein bhale hi koi kitni bhi acchi baat bata de. AAj bhi log ghazlon ko zyada doob kar sunte banizbat koi English pop ko. Kya zaroori hai ki aap angrzi mi likho tabhi accha likhoge ? kya koi American hindi ko translate kar ke padhta hoga jaise hum angrezi ko translate karke padhte hain? Kya batein logon ki samjh me zyada khud ki bhasah me aati hain ya jo likhte hain unki bhasaha mein? Bahut se sawaal hain magar jawaab khain nahi.

Mai samjha raha ek bhasha ki ahmiyat ahle zamaane ko,

Zara pooch mjhse kya mai khud ise samajh paaya !!

Bahut hi gahraiyun me sochta hun to paata hun ki bahut si bhashayen aaye is zamane me aur bahut se logon ne bahut kuch seekha harek bhasha mein par kisi ne ye bhi nahi kaha ki ye accha hai aur ye bura, Is bhasha me likhoge to ye acchi baat aur nahi likha to ye buri baat, Kya wajah hai ki log ghabrate hain baat karte hue ki kahin beizzati na ho jaye , agar ki kabhi badi mahfilon me ek dossri bhasha ka galat istimaal bhi garta hai to log adab se samjha kyun nahi dete ki kya sahi hai aur kya galat aur mazaak is baat ka banate hain ki tmhare muh se harf sahi nahi nikal rahe?

Badi bechain raahein hain , Bade kism ke swaal hain,

Kis bhasha me kaho main bataon tmko,

Ki Mere dil mein kya khayaal hain !!

The Environment around us is the main element that affects us a lot. It is the environment which tells us to live life in a way that we want to live or in a way like other want us to live. The people around us are the key one who directly or indirectly affects our behavior and our dreams. We think of doing all sorts of things to achieve dreams but as soon as we reach in some different environment we choose to opt out from our dreams and start to follow the common dreams of an environment and of people living it. The key sources that need to be taken care before involving to an environment more than required if you are living with the people having totally different tastes are-

Saving your Ideas, emotions, dreams, goals, traits, culture, habits and interests are as important as learning new ones.

A time comes in everybody life when we distress heavily from various talks that we do with ourselves and various that we want to do it with others. A time comes when we feel like to prove things; a time comes when we feel like to explain things. It is a ritual of the world to get an explanation about each and everything that we do, it’s a ritual to weigh us on the scales that is designed for something else. It is a curse to have an idea and a big curse if idea is unique.

The mind works in a way where we always wants someone else stamp on the things that are created by us. We usually go to everybody to approve it from chain to chain and at last, left with so many opinions that we doubt ourselves and our capabilities. The people who are in our neighbor or the people from our classrooms or the people from offices everybody just asks one thing “Hey! What happened to your ideas? When are you going to implement? Where is the next Steve job? Where is the next shahrukh khan or where is the next sachin tendulkar?” They compare us with the eminent personalities because our ideas revolved around them. Mounted by these pressures we lost our originality and start to chase things that are not in our plans.

Why if we explain to people if we know we can do it alone? We go for them in search of help, we go for them to praise us, we go for them to relate us, we go for them to make us, but nothing happens the way we thought to happen. First they need explanation for the things then they need proof of the capability. There is nothing wrong if they really want to, but they do so because they believe we are on the wrong side they are on the right.

There are certain times when we take back our assignments and our dream just because of some temporary difficulties and people think that this guy is going to over soon. Is it really hard to come back if anyone is failing again and again? No, many did in past many are doing in present and many will do in future. The possibility of life is seen by nobody and the pearls of success are hidden within it. The person who is working continuously with hammer sure will get diamond one day rather than the person who is commenting on the act of hammering on a hard rock.

Why to explain when we know our ideas are better and our passion is good? Why to explain when our motive is clear and our mission is unique? Why to explain when they never heard, never saw and never felt the kind of the kind of thing we are going to do? If we will explain they will expect proof. If we don’t explain they will expect nothing. The results will surprise them then explain them what you proved them.

Get an Idea->implement it->proof to others->Then explain it

I started reading from the chapters on moral science, English literature, General knowledge and other useful subjects that we use to have in our primary school. I learnt lot of things from them, the basics of culture, traditions, humanities, geography and history of mankind all I got from those chapters. When I was new on this earth I was having a firm desire to read each and everything that our land has. Whether it is about the rich history or about rich geography everything was so fascinating.

I read about the ancient era, medieval era and modern era. Everything was so perfect and structured that I never lost interest in it and slowly learned each information from the country to the world. The articles that I read about our freedom fighters and their moment to save the country inspired my love towards the country. The articles that I read about flora and fauna, metals and non-metals, mountains, plains, plateaus made me think about the natural resources and dependents of the world. I was always fascinated to read the things on various subjects because each subject made me more mature with more time. For getting basics only, I spent my 12 years of life in education.

Whenever I got a chance to study on the leaders I wanted to become among one like that. The chapters about the life of Mahatma Gandhi in 6^th, 7^th, and 8^th class made enriched with great lessons from such a great personality. There was a separate subject that was solely dedicated to characters in our school. I learned about more than 60 personalities during those three years and every personality told some truth and generated desire to do something great.

The education from class 9^th onwards was more likely about science and maths. The education was about concepts and logic. I learned to analyze, generate and examine results during my four year of tenure. I went to read more into deep about the subjects that developed a constant problem solving skills in mind. All those twelve years I trained myself to learn every bit of this world so that when I go into the real world I don’t get distract.

In general all of us have similar stories in life till 12^th but the topic for which I am writing this article starts from here “GOOD AND BAD WRITINGS”. After this, everything is in our hand. Which book to read which to not? Which magazines to use which to not? Which person should we emphasize more which to not?

The era of the internet that changes my perception about life for which I was not ready for school .

These few websites and search engines are 

My main purpose is to show you the happenings that are going on the internet. Now people are frustrated, depressed, Uncontrolled, full of with evil thoughts, Jealous, High, Short-tempered with full of hatred. That’s just because most read bad than goods.

 Let’s create a world of internet full of excellent articles and motivation for life.Avoid reading and sharing bad articles on the internet; if possible try to report it.