“Attitude” is a feeling of joy where one feels everything is settled and there is nothing to worry about. This word is having a great impact on the human race may be since from first human itself. This feeling is dangerous as well as touchwood. People do get fear from it if it is experience by someone else and also do get Goosebumps while experiencing it.

When you talk with someone the other person can feel it at an instant only. There is nothing to tell about and nothing to learn about. It is something that just gets out of you from the actions and expressions. People argued and given lectures on it. Many relationships and friendships saw end because of it. Many businesses saw a big failure through it, many countries went into war because of it. It seems really absurd how this tiny word and feeling associated to it created so much fuss in the world.

When you show the Arrogance what really happens is that your mind stops working and you get into position where you feel to be on the top of world. You don’t understand sentiments, arguments, and expressions. You feel to be in a situation where you are boss and rest all are your puppets. This whole situation can really do a lot of damage if you think about it. A person who just stopped caring about the world and is not considering any advices will be the person who will did his/her own grave.

Attitude is not always bad but it depends. If you don’t show the amount of settlements in your feeling you are doing good to you. A person gets your Arrogance (bad part of attitude) only when you show the feeling of settlement otherwise nobody can get it. The situations are like:-

All the above points I am sure you must felt or saw someone feeling. These all can put you into trouble so what should do with this behavior?

Life is unpredictable, at one day you feel like to be on top and other you feel to be under tons of weight. It is unpredictable not because it is designed like that but it is because of our expectations. There are a lot of incidents happen around us for which we can’t do anything. There are incidents that are out of control, out of our reach, out of expectations and dreams. Most of the time we expect our future based upon the present situation and we integrate it to find the big canvas. We get motivated through it and also sometimes go into the depression because of same.

There are certain things in life which tell us to be neutral and nor to be happy more than requiring neither be sad. The wisdom comes not when you don’t react to the situation but when you take it as a lesson and move on. Moving on is the biggest wisdom of life and nobody should keep holding things for a long period of time. Every second we are moving in the universe then why we should not move our thoughts? Why be stationary with one thought?

We live with multiple people but do not learn from them. We wait for the situation to happen with us instead we can give a look around us to learn from others. Why work on already solve problems when there are plenty of problems exist to be solved? We should interact with the people and listen to their experiences bad or good it doesn’t matter. Life should not be spent like sitting at one place thinking about the past.

When you take decisions most of the time it results from the thoughts of emotion gathered over your mind. Try to be calm whenever decide about something and never take a decision at an instant. Sometimes we lost the precious moments of life when heart conquers over the mind. The heart is what you want at present and mind is what you require in the long run. Do not be confuse from the orders of your own soul and take decisions whenever things are calm.