10 things you must remember while talking to first time with anyone
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It’s a strange world
where people want to die on something they love, the world is full of dreams
and desires and it’s our vision that how we can relate it with ourselves, we
have seen the way people like and dislike other people some have the reason and
some do not have but they do irrespective of their concern about others. I met
many people some are great with their conversations and some are not so good,
some are very talented in presenting themselves and some do not so much good to
present themselves but one thing come out from this is interest in you and the
other whom you are taking in the topic going on.
Many times people will
ask about introduction and many times they want more from you, it’s the first
meeting where you can prove them about your vision, your attitude and your
personality, the second time they meet with you are not concerned about who you
are, it’s the first time they know who you are and what your plans and how will
you benefit them in their work. It’s the general ritual of this world to make
contact with you and see who you are to get a profit from you. It’s not only
others do but you also took the same path in many situations.
So the topic is that
how you can be benefited from talking and discussing others, you have to keep
few things in your mind to make you in position where people will not treat you
like an entity and you will not treat others as a commodity.
1.
Welcome other people with a smile on
your face ,I know it’s a general thing
and you all know about it but it’s the first thing by which you and also others
think them as a safe talking to you, if you go to them by a irregular facial
expression ,they will threatened and you will also feel insecure.
2.
Discussed about the topics something you
are familiar with and other one also, don’t go for the topics where one knows
many things and other is just arguing about it to make him correct, its only
make out relation worst.
3.
Never discuss about the activities of a
people you know in common because one will always meet them and tell about it
to the person that affects your or their relation with the person.
4.
Never show the achievements or awards
you have got without asking about it, it makes you as people who showoff and
other people will also regret about not having it and they always try to be
away from you in next meet.
5.
Do not try to be over smart, if you have
arranged a party to show them, it will only take them to think that you are
alone and you want a company of people that’s why you have arranged a party to
them.
6.
Never ever argument with anyone ,if you
win they have bitter value towards you at the end if you lost it will feel them
you are a loser who always wants to win with a wrong statistics in hand.
7.
Take care that you should not disclose
any personal talk with them, because if you do, in future they can blackmail
you.
8.
Your family is important so never ever
give details about your family members in a first meet, and never show them who
you are actually, belong to higher class, middle class or lower class.
9.
Never ever disclose your salary and
office details with them, its enough to share designation and company name.
10.
The last but not least ,always take
interest in their talk whatever they are telling it feels them that you are a
good person who have high values instead you are listening to them.
These were the best
practices you can go for if you want to be a person, who knows for a good
personality and better behavior than others, by applying these traits in your
life you can easily get contacts and never ever fail in any mission because of
only just a talk. A discussion matters more than that any other thing matter,
so keep it simple and enjoy talking with others.
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